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Definition of Workplace Bullying

DEFINITION:
Workplace Bullying is repeated, health-harming mistreatment of one or more persons (the targets) by one or more perpetrators that takes one or more of the following forms:

*Verbal abuse

*Offensive conduct/behaviors (including nonverbal) which are threatening, humiliating, or intimidating

*Work interference — sabotage — which prevents work from getting done

http://www.workplacebullying.org/individuals/problem/definition/
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.”
~Harvey S. Firestone

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Powerful YouTube Video

This is very powerful! A young man who has been bullied and the pain it is causing him. Whether you are being bullied in school or in the workplace, bullying leaves deep scars and changes you forever. To schoolyard bullies and workplace bullies, you need to STOP your hurtful ways. If you are reading my blog and have your own blog, please share this and get the word out.

In response to this YouTube video:

This is also so very powerful! There are many others responding to support Jonah Mowry.

I was just telling someone the other day, I have moved on but my life has changed after experiencing workplace bullying. Bullying is not a joke, its very very real and anyone choosing to do nothing to stand up to it, is only being a part of this epidemic. You are no better then the bully!

We can make a difference in the life of a person being bullied. Yes, you might be scared but it is no longer an excuse for not taking a stand! STOP BULLYING!!!!

Survivor

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Things that a bully would say...

He stresses over any and every project that doesn't involve sitting on his a#$ and doing a crossword puzzle.
I hate being pregnant...and I hate being pregnant because I hate being vulnerable and I dont have anyone strong to lean on.
For those of you who know me...you know that I am pregnant...again...for the third miserable time.....
Totally offended and annoyed...why are people so rude and ignorant?
Today is too beautiful to be dealing with a#^holes.;)
I want a "do over" on one particular pain in the a&*. lol
Here's to a great day and common sense. ;)
Dear Lord, help me deal with complete stupidity without slapping anyone....if you think whiskey would be helpful, just say the word.

Facts

"The narcissist, through narcissistic parenting develops a belief that he is flawed at the core but his defense mechanism is to reject the disapproving parent and anyone else who might challenge his worth and value. In the narcissistic fantasy world he paints a new picture of himself based on what he believes would bring him approval and admiration by society. He rejects that part of himself rooted in strong feelings of inadequacy and superimposes the new improved version of himself which is flawless. This is simply how he has learned to survive in a narcissistic reality"~http://www.narcissismfree.com/inverted-narcissist.php
Characteristics of a Narcissistic Mother..."She favoritizes. Narcissistic mothers commonly choose one (sometimes more) child to be the golden child and one (sometimes more) to be the scapegoat"~http://postcardstoanarcissist.wordpress.com/characteristics-of-narcissistic-mothers/
"Control is a common indicator of the serial bully at home - control of finances, control of movements, control over choice of friends, control of the right to work, control over what to think, and so on. All are designed to disempower"~http://www.bullyonline.org/related/family.htm
"Yet the narcissist expects total allegiance, loyalty, and submissiveness in all circumstances.When the narcissist volunteers he is at his best. He is often cherished as a pillar of civic behavior and a contributor to community life. Thus, he is able to act, win applause, and reap Narcissistic Supply – and all with full legitimacy"~http://samvak.tripod.com/msla3to4.html
"The drama queen: every incident or opportunity, no matter how insignificant, is exploited, exaggerated and if necessary distorted to become an event of dramatic proportions. Everything is elevated to crisis proportions. Histrionics may be present where the person feels she is not the centre of attention but should be. Inappropriate flirtatious behaviour may also be present"~http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/attent.htm
"is untrustworthy and unable to trust others - this partly explains the compulsion for excessive monitoring"~http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/serial.htm
"Bullies will lie to protect themselves, openly, shamelessly, and without let up. Observing it, it's hard to believe others can't or wont, see through the sham. They'll twist and manipulate events and comments to suit themselves and make themselves look good and you look foolish".~traverselife: L. Lies. Workplace bullying

Quotes

"He who is humble is confident and wise. He who brags is insecure and lacking"~Lisa Edmondson
Don't be yourself-be someone a little nicer~Mignon McLaughlin
"Bullying is the manifestation of an infantile&primitive need to become the leader of the pack.The modern day bully believes he is a human being, but he is an animal"~Bona
"The world will not be destroyed by those who do evil, but by those who watch them without doing anything"~Albert Einstein
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names"~John F. Kennedy
“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves." Matthew 7:15, ESV
"Courage is fire, and bullying is smoke"~Benjamin Disraeli

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Definition of Workplace Bullying

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